they argue that most military members r conservatives, and that they dont like the idea of gays being open about their sexuality. according to republicans, military members can kill and get kill but they cant take the fact that the guy next to them is gay....... if thats the case american conservatives are more ignorant than what i thought.
so basically its ok for you to give your life for your country (neocon agenda in my opinion), but its ok as long as you dont say that your gay, because then you r one of them (the non Americans, Mexicans, Muslims, non whites, etc)